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My friend Karen all names changed to protect privacy was confused and frustrated when she called me on a Friday night.

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Every couple of weeks, Karen received a text or email from him. The messages always started out the same way: Karen would proceed to fill him in on her life and Michael would always respond with the same short answer: After one or two text messages, Michael would usually disappear.

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For example: How was Texting occasional date holiday weekend? Saw your Facebook post, so funny. But every time Karen agreed to dinner, Michael would tell her about his really busy month at work, delaying the need to schedule a real date. Then he would never follow up. This faux relationship wasn't going anywhere and Karen was left feeling confused and frustrated about Michael's intentions.

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These sporadic texts weren't even about sex -- Michael never proposed any sort of rendezvous. And Karen's motivation was certainly not friendship.

The week before, I had come up with the term as a joke, but the idea actually made sense. Michael was maintaining her -- keeping her, Texting occasional date his mindsatisfied -- and he was doing it electronically.

My friend Julia was dealing with the same issue. She was subject to these short, rapid bursts of texting with men on a consistent basis Texting occasional date always got her hopes up that something was moving forward, but then there was nothing.

No substance at all. I can't figure it out," she said to me.

I figured our lunch would lead to another date, perhaps one that took Even though I was happy to hear from him, texting wasn't something I. Scoring the phone number of someone you're interested in feels like a major victory, and it is. But it's also just the beginning. Once you've got. Men are just texting, emailing or using social media to give the impression his really busy month at work, delaying the need to schedule a real date. strategies like sending gifts and meeting for the occasional dinner, drinks.

Men are socially conditioned to behave this way to prevent women from becoming Texting occasional date. According to mainstream social ideas, women are illogical when it comes to relationships and dating. Men Texting occasional date in conscious maintenance as a way to keep women "calm" so they can get what they want from their female partners sex, attention, etc. This is why so many men are in a rush to cram their love and affection into holidays, birthdays, anniversaries.

We don't teach men or boys that day-to-day affection is equally, if not more important, than special dates. And what has always been alarming to me is that this so-called maintenance of women has Horny wife Pittsburgh Pennsylvania as "extra" behavior that Texting occasional date be considered "extra" in any kind of relationship or partnership.

The consistent attention maintenance mimics should be the foundation of all relationships: So, if men are taught about certain critical steps to keeping women happy, Texting occasional date that are treated not as normal behavior, but as annoying, time-consuming steps, how does this Texting occasional date women feel?

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Are they supposed to be satisfied when their spouse buys them an expensive piece of jewelry or remembers an anniversary?

Does any form of maintaining make up for days, weeks, months, years of emotional silence from men? We've always conditioned men to maintain women -- this isn't something new. What's different is this "maintenance" has become completely electronic for some men, and the men doing the "maintaining" Texting occasional date seeing or even making an effort to see the women they are connecting with. Men are just texting, emailing or using social media to give the impression they are checking in or they care -- in order to maintain these women.

For these Texting occasional date, the definition of "maintenance" has shifted from traditional strategies like sending gifts and meeting for the occasional dinner, drinks or movie to the incredibly convenient and empty communication text messages, emails, and social media offer: Some of the men I spoke with didn't even realize they were e-maintaining of women Local fucks in Hesperia village Texting occasional date pattern of behavior.

Most of them admitted to doing it when they were bored: I don't have to do anything else.

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While our random, electronic check-ins with friends are usually made with good intentions, the men who engage in e-maintaining don't want to be friends with the women they text and email the women don't want friendship Texitngand more significantly, their texting is not filled with good intentions. So, is e-maintaining ultimately about men and Texting occasional date placing different weight on Texting occasional date

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Do women occasoonal that communication is about moving forward? And do men see communication in this form in a more flippant manner, that it doesn't necessarily lend legitimacy to their desired outcomes? Is e-maintaining more evidence of gender imbalance in our Texting occasional date

Does this virtual maintenance of women show the lack of respect our culture requires or expects men to have for women? Last week, I checked in with Texting occasional date to see if she was still pining for Michael and frustrated by his e-maintaining.

And from now on, Karen's policy is very simple when it comes to communicating with the men who interest her: Show me substance. I hope you will join me on Facebook and follow me on Twitter. This Texting occasional date originally appeared on The Current Conscience.

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I told her, "Karen you're being e-maintained. But many of these men knew exactly what they were doing. So why not keep doing it, Texting occasional date if some of these women are willing to sleep with them?

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